108: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Become a Master at Setting Boundaries {Behind the Scenes

If you struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, low self-worth, or authenticity then this is the most important podcast episode you'll listen to all year! In this episode I take you behind the scenes of a live group coaching call from my program Your Life's Work where I share insights, tools, and a "how-to" guide to stop people-pleasing and set boundaries with ease (and so much more!!). Can't wait for you to listen to this one.

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EPISODE TIMECODE BREAKDOWN:

(00:00) Intro + What is a behind the scenes coaching call?
(04:09) Why setting boundaries can feel so hard
(04:54) A trick to make boundary setting easier
(08:37) How to set a boundary WITHOUT a power struggle
(15:22) The REAL reason we people-please (this will blow your mind)
(19:24) How to authentically connect with emotionally immature people
(22:34) The main reason you want to stop people-pleasing
(25:49) What to do about "energy vampire" clients and customers
(26:59) What to do if you're everyone's "personal therapist"
(29:24) Why you feel like you HAVE to be everyone's "personal therapist"
(30:42) Why we feel resentful after helping people
(32:08) How to start setting boundaries with people that always turn to you for support
(36:11) What to do when people emotionally dump on you
(37:39) Why we have a constant need to achieve

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DISCLAIMER: I am not a therapist, nor am I offering medical advice or suggesting any treatment in this or any other episode. The information I share is for informational purposes only. Please see further terms and disclaimer here.

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108: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Become a Master at Setting Boundaries {Behind the Scenes - Group Coaching Call}